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Blackwater River's avatar

Well, I AM a credentialed expert as a BPS Counselling Psychologist (not a counselor but actually a field that lies within the expert areas of Psychiatrists and Clinical Psychologists but without prescribing capacities). The harm is not enacted on the perpetrator but on the child. This approach dismisses the destruction of the child’s world view that it is fair, and adults will not harm me., known as shattered assumptions. This harm is also seen in physical abuse cases -note ABUSE. And abuse results in traumatic scarring (PTSD).

Dismissing paedephelia as simply another ‘choice’ disregards the impact on the child entirely. A child cannot consent as in ‘actions of two consensual ADULTS. Assuming that children have legal capacity turns our understanding of childhood on its head. We see children as ‘innocent’, unknowledgeable of impacts of actions and requiring protection from parents.

And where will this ‘reframing’ lead? See the grooming gangs in Britain where police dismissed family and victims by saying a 12 year old can give consent. Or see the Programmes of Sex education down to 3 year olds in Wales and across many US States.

Paedephelia and cannibalism are the last taboos from Judeo Christian ethics. They’ve been reframing what is ethical for some time such as all the C19 decisions that an individual does not have bodily autonomy. And if this is carried forward into society, children will know from an early age that they too have no rights to what happens to their bodies.

What of rape? I do wonder how this counselor would reframe it. ‘Someone who likes to physically or mentally overpower another to force sex’? It has been somewhat decriminalised through it’s parcity of prosecutions in the grooming scandals that involved both minor attraction and rape. So let’s just say it’s ok.

Not.

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Tanto Minchiata's avatar

Ok so what I got out of this is 1) you are into lifeguards, (which is totally fine. I’m not judging you.. unless it’s David Hasselhof) and 2) #MicroMerrick is a weenie.

Our country has been taken over by mentally ill people, weenies, and their highly credentialed enablers.

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