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Sue Kelley's avatar

I was going to nursing school at LA county hospital and I lived in campus( rent was$85 a month compared to $800 a month in the valley) and I had never really seen homeless people before. Leaving campus, dressed up for dinner, I saw a man lying in the street with his walker. Someone said he was hit by a bus. I couldn't just drive by and no one would help so I loaded him into my car to take him up the drive to the ER. He gets in the passenger seat and lights a cig. I said"please put that out". He said something I didn't quite get but continued smoking. So I bring him to the ER ambulance dock. And I run in and get the nurse. She takes one look and called him by name. She snarkily says" give me your number so I can call you when he's done here sweetie". I was so appalled at her lack of compassion I swore I would NEVER be a nurse like her!

Turns out he wasa movie stars' brother and a frequent flyer for 3 hours and a cot alcoholic. Apparently his brother tried for years to help but finally gave up they said.

I was a young and naive upper middle class white girl and my heart bled for the poor homeless guy. I had never really seen that in my neck of the woods. ( SF valley) Of course I was a liberal.

Fast forward 40 years and now I'm hanging on to middle class by the skin of my teeth, an old white lady that would NEVER put a guy she didn't know in her car who ,some days, has to dig really deep to feel sorry for guys like him. I've spent these years caring for tons of homeless people that treat you like shit on their shoes. ( Not all of them but the vast majority) And most refuse the help you spend hours arranging because , well...." rules". So you discharge them to their imaginary address and see them again in a couple weeks. When they run out of whatever it is they abuse. Or the pity they live on dries up. Or they OD,get infected,beat up, etc etc.

By the grace of God, I never did become THAT nurse but I did become a conservative and leave California about 25 years ago. I work in Washington and it's just a smaller version of Cali. But I live in Idaho and we don't have that problem in our town.It is a resort town and the cops don't tolerate sleeping on the streets. I hear the Dem infested capitol of Boise does though.

Interesting note: when the snow flies, the homeless problem drops way off. I wonder where they go and how they get there.

One thing I've learned from running a soup kitchen and being a nurse: there's a whole lot of homeless people that don't want to be a part of "our"society. They want to do their drugs and have no rules and they expect hand outs to keep them going. There's a lot that are just too mentally ill to function as well. There are some, mostly young, that do want help. But this delusion that if we just did this or that they can all be functioning, happy members of society? That just makes people feel better throwing money at it.

I don't know what the solution is but I think the mentally ill need to be institutionalized, the criminal types need to be locked up and we need to stop ripping the ones that don't want to get better out of the grave over and over again so we can utilize the limited resources on the ones that do. That's my idea of compassion these days.

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SimulationCommander's avatar

There's a fire raging through Central Oregon right now, and -- you might want to sit down for this -- it started in the middle of a homeless encampment in the woods.

Climate change is really nasty this time of year.

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